Chat rooms adultery


Usually, the subject is treated phobically -- predators, stalkers, porno-peddlers, even cyber sexual assaults.But as more Americans go online, it follows that more are finding their ways into chat rooms, IM's and video-confs and trying to seduce each other, digitally and literally.

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Indeed, people consider cybersex to have a high degree of psychological reality—but many do not consider it to be consider it to be infidelity.For instance, they tend to falling in love with someone they meet online while other relationships flounder. An online romance turns into a frightening or pathological relationship.Or they fall in love with people who don't return their affection. Or somebody has a pseud or doesn't tell you it's a same-sex relationship.Gwinnell gives advice on how to protect yourself online: how to spot trouble, to figure out when you've gone too far or when someone is going too far with you.Where she scores highly with me is that Gwinnell brings a sensible, even historical approach to the topic of seduction.These people believe that if they do not even know the real name of their cybermate—and never actually see them—their affair cannot be regarded as from a moral point of view; it's no different from reading a novel or other form of entertainment.

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